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Explore, Discover, Connect: "Choose the path that resonates with your desires, and let's begin this journey together." Kind regards, Miss S

Confidential, non-judgemental and personalized sessions embracing all aspects of human sexuality with particular focus surrounding fetishes, kinks, alternative sexual desires and lifestyles. Above Norms provides support to those wishing to understand, explore and embark on a fetish positive journey or provides assistance in managing fetishes that have become challenging in your life.

Miss S is open to discuss many topics and finds personal fulfillment in empowering and educating others based on her own experiences.

The categories below are listed on the booking form. Please choose the one that most closely matches what you are seeking and provide details in the "requests" box about specific content

01

Open Chat

Openminded, non-judgemental & 100% confidential REAL convo. Sharing stories, thoughts, opinions or just talking about life. I'm knowlegeable in a VERY broad range of topics due to my "colorful lifes journey". I'm honest, have a witty, sarcastic sense of humor, extremely compassionate, I'm a quick thinker,  genuine and largely un-filtered, although the true empath in me is careful not to offend. I've had psychic abilities since childhood however, the accuracy of them was scary for me in the past so I ignored them only recently fully embracing them. I often have clients ask me "How did you know that!!!?" This category should be requested for life insight by those who want the 100% REAL LIFE ME!

03

Skills & Learning

Unlike my Fetish/Kink Exploration Sessions this focuses more on learning and perfecting the skills and techniques needed to succeed in specific fetishes, sexual  preferences or in your dating life. This is popular for Sissy Fetishists who seek an experienced coach to guide them on their sissy journeys and teaching them how to perfect their Sissy image, behavior, mannerisms and servitude skills. I also  teach the "how-to's" of Domination, BDSM for personal or professional use, specific fetish techniques or specific bedroom skills including oral sex skills for men and women, anal sex skills, using your fingers on women, foreplay, masturbating, adult toys for you or in your relationship, erotic massage, stamina and how to last longer for men, achieving orgasm for women, kissing tips and dating techniques; how to successfullly flirt and pick up men/women or finding a longterm partner. Many of these can also be requested in my Couples Sessions.

05

Going Deep; Therapy

Unlike my "advice/guidance" this session focuses on deeper HEALING! You need help! You're depressed, feel helpless, lost or perhaps are coping with a fetish that's become problematic in your life. You know it's time to face what you've been running from or blocking out for years! In these sessions I help you get to the ROOT of the problem and work through the trauma that has brought you to this point. My goal is to help find solutions and strategies that will give you the confidence, motivation and purpose back in your life creating the changes you need to move forward. My approach includes self awareness, acceptance and love,  positive self empowerment and incorporating healthy outlets and alternative approaches to cope with destructive behavior, negative thoughts and  unfavorable thoughts and feelings. I have education in Counseling, Sexual Psychology, Addictions and Crisis Intervention. This type of therapy is generally done in multiple sessions. 

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Advice & Guidance

Unlike the more lighthearted conversation in "Open Chat" this would be the category you'd request if you have SPECIFIC, unanswered questions or need advice on something that perhaps has you confused, a problem, challenge or situation that you're dealing with sexually or in any other part of your life. I give unbiased, refreshingly non-sugarcoated advise and both personal and factual insight that offers you the knowledge or direction you've needed to help you move forward in your life. I have an educational background in Counseling Skills Sexual Psychology, Addictions and Crisis Intervention. Popular topics include erectile problems, self sexual identity, secret fetishes and desires, understanding or exploring "unusual" fantasies or kinks  and relationship, dating or intimacy advice and knowledge.

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Fetish or Kink Exploration

These are 1 on 1 sessions pertaining to specific kinks or fetishes that you wish to explore. This is a kink positive experience for those that are new or are wanting to further embrace specific desires/fetishes and seek a personalized approach through online roleplay, conversation and/or instructions.  By connecting with the fetish expert of Canada my clients gain new insight, understanding as well as experience by safely and discreetly playing out what gives them pleasure.  A list of the fetishes I'm experienced in, roleplays you can choose from and options to create your own personal scenario can be found at the links below  www.msworkshopscanada.com/fetishesicaterto

www.msworkshopscanada.com/roleplays

www.msworkshopscanada.com/createthesession

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Just for Couples

Communication problems, trust issues, re-igniting "the spark", disclosing, understanding, incorporating and/or coping with sexual fetishes in your relationship and teaching couples specific sexual, fetish or BDSM techniques and skills to enhance your sex life are all examples of what we can connect for.  See "Skills + Learning"  (category #3) above for more popular methods I teach to couples! My educational background includes Counseling Skills, Sexual Psychology, Addictions and Crisis Intervention. I'm a former Pro Dominatrix specializing in fetishes and kinks and I have 30+ yrs of experience in various Adult Industries. I'm unbiased and compassionate when working with couples as my goal is to SAVE RELATIONSHIPS and intensify or strengthen the sex life that is either boring or lost between partners. I'm an advocate of longterm commitment and happy, healthy relationships. These sessions require BOTH partners to participate although individual sessions with each partner during multiple sessions may be suggested. Same sex couples are welcome.

Please note that although Above Norms is a licensed and registered business in Vancouver, B. C. I am not a licensed or certified therapist or counselor. I do have a background/education in counseling skills, sexual psychology, crisis intervention and addictions. My experience as a high caliber Professional Dominatrix and 30+ years in "Adult Industries" have given me invaluable personal experience that is key in the services I now provide. I guarantee confidentiality in my connections and have Non Disclosure Agreements available upon request before commencing services. I can also provide a signed Certificate of Destruction to clients upon completion of services. These documemts MUST be requested at the time of booking IN WRITING in the "your requests" section of the online booking form towards the bottom. I will require your full legal name and photo i.d. if you wish to sign such documents. 

My wife didn't have a dominant bone in her body until I surprised her with your learning sessions to teach her domination skills! She was doubtful about you and the sessions until she did them and whoa! you created a monster! I'm thrilled with the new wife I got from your training. I still can't believe this worked but how well it worked! She's become my dream come true real life Mistress. Thanks so much. I'm beyond words at how grateful I am! You have an exceptional talent. 

T. Wilson, ThunderBay, ON

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